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In between these two extremes is true assertiveness . In my mind, this is the balance point where we feel best and achieve the most satisfactory results. If I am assertive, this means that what I say (or think or feel) is just as important as what someone else expresses. I am not more important than someone else, nor am I less important. It's fine if they disagree with me Cheap Jordan 32 , and I have no intrinsic need to convert them to my way of thinking. We all experience all three types of reaction. How do we manage our response to best serve ourselves and others?


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